Tuesday, August 18, 2009

New Zealand Part II

Here are some of my favorite things that we did in New Zealand:
A cruise around Milford Sound on a gorgeous day!
Kinloch lodge lake
The luge on the side of the mountain in Queenstown
Hiking a Glacier
Getting stuck in a traffic jam of sheep


Click through to the Vimeo website in order to see it in HD - well part of it at least. Our video camera battery died for some portion of the trip and so we used the video function on our digital camera, which turned out ok - just not HD.

New Zealand Part Two from Nathan Marvelle on Vimeo.

Another reason I love our Prius . . .

. . . the gas tank is only 10 gallons. Now, some might see that as a problem. Smaller gas tank means more fillups. But because the Prius gets more than twice as many miles to the gallon as other cars, you are still filling up less often AND the smaller gas tank means that fillups are QUICK! Other reasons to love the Prius: the interior lights come on as you approach the car (it senses the keys), you open the door and start the car without using the keys, and you can lock all the doors with a tap on the handle. All very nice features that you would expect on a luxury car.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Needed: A soundtrack for writing

On this sorta gloomy Sunday afternoon, I have sat down at my computer to begin writing the outline for one of the four chapters that I have to pen for my dissertation. The deadline: October 14th... not only do I have to write these chapters, but I also have to finish the lab work!

While writing, I am finding myself distracted by the silence that is our house. The dryer is humming in the background and the dog's tags jingle as he randomly roams the house looking for something interesting. I have settled on Lisa Hannigan to keep me company. But I am anticipating having endless hours of writing, and although I am not opposed to listening to songs over-and-over I'm going to need a soundtrack to keep me motivated and focused. I'm looking for something upbeat and calming (is that an oxymoron?). Any suggestions?

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

495 miles

That is how many miles our Prius got to it's first tank of gas... Pretty good, eh? And when I filled it up I was surprised at how quickly the tank was full - It seems like it might only hold ~10 gallons. I put in 9.9 gallons to be exact, and 495 miles/9.9 gallons = exactly 50 miles per gallon as predicted by the manufacturer.

I can't believe we have driven that much in only a week and a half!

Sunday, August 9, 2009

Julie and Julia

On Friday, Michelle and I went to see Julie and Julia. This may have been the first movie I have ever seen on opening night. I was expecting the movie to be good... but it exceeded my expectation - it was great! I could not stop smiling and was giggling the whole time. However, one disappointment - there was a scene towards the end of the movie that left me feeling a little uneasy and was never resolved. I wish the producers had either left that scene out, or provided an explanation for the audience. But other than that - it was great!

A must see!


A felt doppelganger of Ira Glass

I stumbled upon this felt doppelganger of Ira Glass on Etsy. Isn't it adorable? He can go with you anywhere putting your life into multiple insightful acts.


The description off the Etsy site:
I admit it: I have a giant crush on Ira Glass. But, as I open up about my situation, I find that I am far from alone. Bring home a tiny felt version of your favorite NPR voice and stage a carefully crafted radio show (in three acts) anytime you want.

Friday, August 7, 2009

New Zealand Video Part I

We finally put together some of our New Zealand video from February. Here is part I... next week we will have part II posted.

New Zealand Part 1 from Nathan Marvelle on Vimeo.

Monday, August 3, 2009

What is this in my belly?

So I've been feeling the baby moving for quite some time. Last week I was able to put Nathan's hand on my stomach and he was able feel her moving. But this weekend something bizarre, strange, and weird happened. I had the computer sitting on my lap while I was laying in the bed. I was peering over my bump and I was feeling the baby squirming... then out of the bottom of my eyes I start seeing my belly moving up and down. Wow! She was kicking or punching so hard that she was making my stomach move! I stared at my belly for 30 minutes in amazement. I wish I had the video camera to record it, but hopefully I will catch it on tape soon.

Yes! No! Yes! No! PRIUS!

Our car from the future was almost snatched away.

We knew that we needed a new car this year (we had two cars >13 years old and have a new baby on the way), but we were unsure what kind and if it was going to be brand new. We were so excited to learn that our 1994 Blazer that my parents had given us was going to qualify as a "clunker" under the cash for clunkers rebate. It gets 17 miles per gallon and with 190,000 miles and being 15 years old we would probably only be able to trade it in for ~$500, but the governments' program was going to guarantee us $4,500!!

The program kicked in on July 24th. So being the planners that we are, we started looking at cars early. We finally decided on the Toyota Prius, a hybrid with 50 miles per gallon, that is just as big as a full-size Camry. We ordered the car on July 16th - a silver Prius with tinted windows and floor mats.

The car was supposed to arrive Wednesday July 29th... it was delayed and potentially was going to arrive Friday, July 31st. However, Nathan was leaving town on Friday for Boston so we weren't sure if we were going to be able to get it.

Friday morning we awoke to a nightmare: This article in the New York Times broke the bad news that we may have just lost $4,500! We were devastated, and were immediately in contact with our salesman as soon as the showroom opened. The dealership had received the news the night before and were trying to figure out what to do for all the people in our shoes... Nathan was back and forth on the phone with him and learned that our car had actually arrived, but still were not sure what the deal was.

At 11am we received a call that the deal was back on and we needed to hurry in and buy our car. CRAZY! We went from devastated to joyful! Both of us rushed from work and began the 2 and 1/2 hour ordeal of buying a new car. Nathan had to catch his flight so Amanda finished up the paperwork and drove the car back to work! What a crazy morning, but we finally had our new car.

Here are some pictures of the newest addition to our family:


Monday, July 27, 2009

Baby Names

So we are having a difficult time picking out a name for our little baby girl. But while we were looking at all the options for names we came upon some real jewels.

Here are my favorites:
Unknown
Asma
Emagine
Damhnait (is that pronounced dominate?)

These are right up there with my favorites told to us by our friend who is a pediatric doctor.
ABCD (prounounced obesity of a- bee-cee-dee)
Erotica Morehead (even after learning the meaning of the first name the mother still went with it)
La-a (pronounced Ladasha; "the dash don't be silent") With that technique maybe my name should be Am&a

Sorry, to those of you who thought that we were going to list our real favorite names... No hints on what we are going to name our little Strawberry Marvelle until she is born.

Monday, July 20, 2009

We're having a girl


Today at our ultrasound we were able to see that we have a healthy baby girl. She is developing normally. We even got to see an 3D image of her face. We are so excited, but now we have to start thinking of girl names.


The 3D image of her face.


Side profile with her hand up around her face.


A foot with 5 toes

Monday, July 13, 2009

What will it be?

On Monday the 20th we go in for our midway ultrasound. During the ultrasound we will get to see if the baby is developing well; we will also get to find out the sex (if the baby is in the correct position).

Any guesses?

Half-way

I am 20 weeks pregnant today - half-way through the pregnancy. It seems so weird to be half way through, and I can't believe how much more I have to do before he/she gets here!

We have been looking into buying a new car because our 15 year old Blazer with 190,000 miles (while it runs great) maybe a little too unreliable for a new born.
We've been looking into day cares. The plan is that I will stay at home for 6 months or so and look to start a job next summer... but we still need to start putting our names on waiting lists so we can have a good spot at a place where we feel comfortable.
We still need to set up the baby's room! We need to register, buy furniture and start getting the house ready!
And finally I need to graduate. Wow. I can't believe I've been in school for over 5 years, and I am still not done. 2 papers under my belt with so much more to do! I was looking at the calendar today made me realize that if I want to graduate before the baby comes then I need to to get some major work done in the next 3 months!


As far as how I've been feeling. My back was aching a little last week, but that seemed to have tapered off after going to the pool twice. I have been sneezing a lot and wake up a stuffy nose. I've started to forget a few things. For instance today I couldn't remember my social security number or a website I visit all the time... But after reading horror stories, I've been very thankful at my lack of symptoms. Hopefully the second half of my pregnancy will be just as smooth as the first.

Belly Pics!

So, I'm a little embarrassed to show these, but oh well, this is what I look like. We went to the pool yesterday and I just felt fat, not round and beautifully pregnant. Even though I've only gained 9 pounds, I feel like I look 30lbs heavier!

Here it is in all its glory for all of those who have asked. Pictures from the beginning.

Friday, June 26, 2009

It's alive!

Where have we been? Well, I've been baking a baby, is that enough of an excuse? Hopefully I'll be more consistent, but no promises!

I am currently 17 weeks 4 days and yes, we are having a baby! Above is an outdated picture, but it's the best I have so far. This was taken at 12 weeks 4 days when the baby was only 2 inches... It's now almost 6 inches and I have started to feel it moving this last week. It's like popcorn in my stomach!

I'm afraid this blog might become more of a kvetching board (kvetch: v. [Yiddish] to complain). But oh well... that seems like that is what everyone is interested in. I have never had so many people asking me "how are you feeling?"

Coming soon - Belly Pics and how I've been feeling.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Amanda is quoted in an Indy article

The Monti revives the lost art of oral storytelling
Stand and deliver

22 April 2009 * By Jessica Fuller * Link to Story

Once upon a time, there was no television or Twitter to aid in the creation and dissemination of stories. In those days, if one wanted a story, someone would have to tell it.
Storytelling may be a nearly lost art, but on a recent Tuesday, there were glimmers of its revival. Sure, there was no blind guy named Homer or inventive girl named Scheherazade; instead, visitors to Alivia's Bistro in Durham listened to New York comic Sara Barron talk about snogging an old crush and heard other tales, including one from a man who awoke one night as a child and found a bat on his chest.

This gathering, founded one year ago by Cary Academy science teacher Jeff Polish, is called The Monti. A showcase for raconteurs, it brings personal narratives and old-fashioned storytelling to a live audience. Polish started the group, named for an old college friend, after seeing an advertisement in The New Yorker for a New York-based storytelling organization called The Moth. The group encouraged people from all walks of life to stand on stage and tell a story—no notes, no script, no fiction.

Polish, who has a doctorate in genetics from Washington University, said that the experience "sounded like everything I'd always wanted to do but didn't have the guts to try."

"I had no idea it would become the phenomenon it has become," he said.

In April of last year, Polish opened the first Monti show at Spice Street in Chapel Hill. So far the group has sold out all 12 of its shows, with tickets going in as quickly as 30 minutes.

"The stories are compelling. They turn life experiences into a story, the banal into something interesting," said one attendee, Amanda Marvelle from Durham, a graduate student in genetics at the University of North Carolina-Chapel Hill.

This particular evening was the second Monti StorySlam, an event best described as a combination of karaoke and a poetry reading. Audience members submit their names into a hat (or, in this case, a Samuel Adams pitcher) and are chosen at random to come to the mike and tell a five-minute story. Audience members also serve as judges, giving each a score from 1-10 based on how well the story flows, stays within the time limit and fits the night's theme.

The evening's theme, "Animal Instincts," seemed perfect for Barron, its guest host. A delightful combination of Saturday Night Live's Kristin Wiig and a frizzier-haired Lucille Ball, Barron took the stage (a 3-foot-by-3-foot wooden box) in a flurry of skinny jeans and purple fingernails.

"Since tonight's theme, Animal Instincts, is sort of sexual," she said with a growl, "I thought I'd read a little something to get us in the mood." She pulled out a gift from her dear Jewish grandmother, a copy of How to Talk So Men Will Listen, and set the crowd rolling on a night of touching, hilarious, gritty, real stories.

But there was far more to the event than the polish of a professional like Barron. The success of the evening would ride on the amateurs who, in a fit of bravery or foolhardiness, signed up to talk. "I can't eat my meal I'm so nervous," said Mark Solomon, a clinical neuropsychologist from Durham, before he was called to the stage. But he captivated the crowd with his tale of discovering bacon after 12 years in a strict vegetarian home. "

"Where did you get this?" he asked, mimicking his mother when she found him sneaking bacon home in his jeans pockets after a sleepover. "Is this responsible for your drop in grades at school?"

Only after Solomon told his story could he eat his dinner peacefully. His meal? A bacon cheeseburger, of course.

There were tales of taking on Florida panthers wearing only a towel, fighting off hippos in the Zambezi River, and eating goat in Kyrgyzstan under the threat of explosive diarrhea. Someone with a double-lung transplant shared the story of fleeing her apartment when she thought she was being robbed, and a man told how his life was changed by the Coalition to Unchain Dogs.

As judges assessed each story, Barron kept up the room's energy with tales of growing up dorky in suburban Chicago and by flirting with the dude from The Regulator who was there with copies of her book, People Are Unappealing.

"I'm staying at the Days Inn, people," she said. "What is the point of staying at the Days Inn if you can't have weird sex with a stranger?"

Montek Singh, an assistant professor of computer science at UNC, shared his story of choosing graduate schools and coming to this country from India. He was told that schools in California have beautiful weather and women, and schools in New York were surrounded by grit and crime but many restaurants.

He shared the question he pondered before making his choice: "Food? Or sex?"

After a well-timed pause, he continued, "So I landed at JFK airport...."

"I'm really impressed with the people willing to get up there," said Briana Brough of Durham, a photographer for Durham Magazine and Chapel Hill Magazine. "The stories are great and very entertaining. It's way better than TV."

Barron, a New York comedy veteran, deemed the performances even stronger than ones she has seen up north. "I was impressed with the caliber and how the community is so supportive."

Along with putting together next month's StorySlam, Polish hopes to gain nonprofit status for The Monti to explore the possibilities of storytelling workshops to spread the art form. Currently, the group uses donated space and spends most of each show's $600 ticket revenue on sound equipment and technicians to preserve the stories shared.

Brian Crawford, a resident of Greensboro and a 20th-century American literature professor at Elon University, summed up the importance of The Monti shows.

"Telling a story for five to 10 minutes is a lost art. People don't have the patience, and people don't know how to listen," he said. "I teach in front a classroom all day long, and it's nothing like this."

The next StorySlam is set for May 19 at Carrboro's DSI Comedy Theater. For information on Monti events, visit www.themonti.org.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Obama is a Ninja


Something to note... the Y axis has pirates in increments of 1/2!

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Why we love Durham

We were recently asked by a friend of ours to write a few sentences about why we love Durham for a class that she is taking. Here is our response:

We love Durham.
We love the diversity, creativity, and intelligence of the Durhamites. Durhamites are all not here for a university or for a particular company, but rather there is a broad spectrum of folks with large numbers of educated people interested in the arts, food, culture, etc. But there's also a realness about Durham - blue collar, Durham-born and bred for generations folks that grounds it and gives it character. Its not a hippie, yuppie island of people trying to isolate themselves in a paradise of their own making.

We love the friendliness (perhaps it comes from being in the South) of Durham's people. People are open and welcoming to each other, smile when they pass in the street, and willing to lend a hand. There isn't a natural suspicion of others' motives that we've felt in other cities.

We love the energy the community has for the revitalization of Downtown. So many are genuinely excited about this process. Some create new businesses and the community is so eager to support them. And its created a positive cycle that seems to gain momentum everyday. We feel that we can participate and can be integral part of it because it's so community-driven. This might be due to the small size of Durham which means that everyone has to play a role. Everyone is talking or blogging or emailing about the new restaurants, activities, etc (and so are we) and so we hear about the new things and can participate.

And the community is energized for good reasons - there are great things to do in Durham and nearby. Universities and their academic and athletic events, restaurants/bars, the Farmer's Market, the Durham Bulls, music (DPAC, Pinhook, and Cat's Cradle, etc), and much more. Its location near Raleigh and Chapel Hill gives us access to those places while still enjoying everything we love about Durham.

There is real history to Durham and its discussed and celebrated. Its buildings are being revitalized and repurposed. While there are dark parts of Durham's history, those aren't being ignored, and the great parts of its history are being celebrated.

Friday, March 20, 2009

UNC vs. Duke - My last basketball game as a student


UNC vs Duke from Nathan Marvelle on Vimeo.

Even though the image is black there is a movie if you press play :)

New Zealand photos


We've posted some of our pictures from New Zealand on our photo site.